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Hosting the Ultimate Friendsgiving: Tips for the Perfect Get-Together


As the holiday season approaches, it’s the perfect time to gather your closest friends for a Friendsgiving celebration. This heartwarming tradition is all about gratitude, great food, and creating unforgettable memories together. Whether you’re a seasoned host or planning your first gathering, these tips will help you throw the ultimate Friendsgiving that everyone will talk about long after the last slice of pie is gone.




1. Set the Date and Time

Choose a date that works for most of your friends. Weekends leading up to Thanksgiving are usually popular, but don’t be afraid to ask your friends what works best for them. Consider an afternoon or evening time that allows everyone to relax and enjoy the festivities without feeling rushed.


2. Create a Guest List

Compile a list of your closest friends to invite. Aim for a manageable group size that allows for comfortable conversation and interaction. A smaller, intimate gathering can be just as special as a larger party, so focus on quality over quantity.


3. Choose a Theme

Adding a theme can elevate your Friendsgiving and make it even more memorable. Consider seasonal themes, such as autumn colors, rustic decor, or a cozy, casual vibe. You can also go for a fun twist, like a “favorite dish” theme where everyone brings a dish they love.


4. Plan the Menu


Potluck Style

One of the best parts of Friendsgiving is the variety of dishes everyone brings. Consider making it a potluck by asking guests to bring their favorite dish—this not only lightens your cooking load but also adds diversity to the menu. Make sure to coordinate who’s bringing what to avoid duplicates.


Main Dishes

  • Turkey or Ham: If you want to take the lead on the main dish, a traditional roasted turkey or glazed ham is a classic choice.

  • Vegetarian/Vegan Options: Consider a hearty vegetarian dish, like a stuffed squash or lentil loaf, to accommodate all dietary preferences.


Sides and Desserts

  • Classic Sides: Think mashed potatoes, stuffing, green bean casserole, and cranberry sauce.

  • Salads: A fresh salad with seasonal ingredients can balance the richness of the meal.

  • Desserts: Don’t forget dessert! Pumpkin pie, pecan pie, or a decadent chocolate cake are always crowd-pleasers.


5. Set Up a Comfortable Space

Create a warm and inviting atmosphere for your Friendsgiving. Here are a few ideas:

  • Table Setting: Use a tablecloth, decorative plates, and seasonal centerpieces (like pumpkins or autumn leaves) to set the tone.

  • Seating: Ensure there’s plenty of comfortable seating. Consider using cushions or throws to make the space cozy.

  • Lighting: Dim the lights and use candles or string lights for a warm ambiance.


6. Make a Playlist

Create a playlist to set the mood for your gathering. Choose a mix of upbeat songs and mellow tunes that will keep the atmosphere lively yet relaxed. You can even ask guests for their favorite songs to make it a collaborative effort.


7. Plan Activities

While food is the star of the show, adding a few activities can enhance the fun:

  • Games: Board games, card games, or group games like charades can break the ice and get everyone laughing.

  • Gratitude Circle: Have everyone share something they’re thankful for. It’s a great way to connect and reflect on the meaning of Friendsgiving.


8. Consider Dietary Restrictions

Be sure to ask your guests about any dietary restrictions or preferences ahead of time. This consideration will ensure that everyone has something delicious to enjoy at the table.


9. Prepare Ahead of Time

To minimize stress on the day of the gathering, prepare as much as you can in advance. Chop vegetables, set the table, and prep dishes the day before. On the day of, focus on warming up dishes and enjoying time with your friends.


10. Enjoy the Moment

Finally, remember that the goal of Friendsgiving is to enjoy each other’s company. Embrace the chaos, soak in the laughter, and cherish the moments spent together. Your friends will appreciate the effort you’ve put into hosting, but they’ll remember the joy of being together even more.



Hosting the ultimate Friendsgiving is all about gratitude, great food, and quality time with friends. With a little planning and creativity, you can create an unforgettable gathering that celebrates the spirit of friendship and the joy of the season. So gather your friends, whip up some delicious dishes, and enjoy a beautiful evening filled with laughter and love. Happy Friendsgiving!


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